I have adopted my granddaughters.  I need to be appreciated & obeyed.  They dont understand what God & I have done for them & seem ungrateful. The oldest thinks her friends have more, she complains alot, I need the 2 of them to be obedient, pick up after themselves, I’ve tried all I know and am feeling very discouraged. Ive given all I have, emotionally, financially, and in my personal life.  All for them, in obedience to God.